Who Gave Her Permission to Grow Up?

I'm seeing some evidence of cupcake eating...

After one of my most challenging teaching weeks in a long time, I was really excited for Charley's birthday party this weekend. I knew I had a lot of prep work to do, because we were out of town last weekend, and I never got a chance to clean during the week. So, I did some picking up on Thursday night, but got started with the real deep cleaning pretty much right away when I got home on Friday. Cleaning for parties is always a bit of an ordeal for me. I want my house to look PERFECT when people come to visit...Especially people in large numbers! So I really spend a long time scrubbing, vacuuming, wiping down counters, etc. Friday evening was no exception. Charley fell asleep around 7:30, which gave me plenty of time to get things set up, with no distractions. By the time I finished, my place looked nice. Very clean. I should've taken a picture, because I stood there, looking at my finished product, well aware that within 24 hours the cleanliness would be a thing of the past. Ha!

Yes, this hat exists. Yes, she keeps flipping the braid over her shoulder.
Thank goodness I decided to keep her hair short! 

Saturday morning, we really didn't have that much to do to get ready for the party. I'd finished most of the grunt work on Friday night, so we had quite a bit of time to relax on the couch and take our time getting ready for the day. Charley chose her party dress, and actually let me do her hair. It was kind of a fun little bonding experience. A couple of people came early with some extra food and decorations, which was so kind and very helpful. Charley could barely contain her excitement.  She had her eye on the pretzel M&Ms that sat on our table ALL morning, but I'd told her she couldn't eat them until guests arrived. The minute the first guests walked through the door, Charley made a beeline for the candy bowl. She really is my child. Ha! When people started coming, I looked around my house and wondered if I had enough space. Within minutes, people filled the kitchen and living room areas, and sounds of kids running upstairs filled the entire house. It was overwhelming, but so much fun! From people I grew up with, to friends from our old neighborhood in Minneapolis, to new friends I've made in the last couple of years, I was amazed by the number of people who came to celebrate with Charley. The adults chatted and ate, while the kids ran around upstairs (coming down to get candy, of course), and it was great! After opening presents, the kids went back upstairs to play Jungle Limbo (one of her gifts), and kept themselves busy until it was time for everyone to go. It's nice that Charley is at an age where she and her friends can play by themselves for periods of time, without supervision, and keep themselves busy without getting into trouble!

Nap time?

At one point during the party, someone asked me if the 7th was actually Charley's birthday. "No," I replied, "It's the 8th." Which lead into a story of how 4 years ago on the 7th, I was told that I'd have to be induced due to low fluid levels. I remember going into the hospital that night, both scared and excited, knowing that I'd be leaving with a baby in a few short days. The nurses hooked me up to monitors, started an IV, gave me some medication to get things rolling a little bit, and then told me to get a good night's sleep, because I would likely start labor first thing in the morning. For all of you future mothers, if you're given the option to be induced at night, DO NOT take it. I didn't sleep at all that night. I was by myself in a hospital bed, hooked up to machines, so I could only move a certain amount without accidentally moving the monitors. But that wasn't the bad part. As I tried to relax in my room, and prepare myself for what was about to happen, all I could hear was the screaming, yelling, and wailing of women in labor...clearly in excruciating pain. Let's just say, it wasn't exactly reassuring. I think there were several times that night when I wondered if I could just have my baby without actually having to go through labor. As it turned out, I went through much of the labor process, but ended up having a C-section late the following day. Although the process of getting her here was a pain to say the least, it doesn't matter, because she's here now, and I can't even remember life before Charley!

Charley's new headband...Thanks, Alysha!

Anyway, back to Charley's birthday party. After everyone left, I scanned the house to survey the damage. I was pleasantly surprised. The kids had picked up after themselves upstairs, and most of the food had been consumed. I found that all I really had to do was clean the kitchen and pick up the toys Charley had received. Lucky me! Charley fell asleep on the couch at 5:30 and slept through the night. It was incredible. I'd like to personally thank all of the people who contributed to her exhaustion! Overall, it was a great way to celebrate Charley's big day. We'd planned to go shopping today, but Charley woke up with a bit of a cold, so we've opted to stay in. She's wearing an Elsa hat and high heels, trying to do the limbo, at the moment. Ha! As I'm sitting here watching her, I find it hard to believe that she's already 4. She's growing up so fast! I really don't know where the time has gone. I told her she has to stay 4 forever, and while I know that's not possible, I kind of wish time would slow down a little bit. On that note, I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!